CHANGE!

to become a good muslim, we must first, change ourselves before changing others. i want to change myself into a new me who is a good, kind person. that statement isn't written for showing that im not a good or kind person but i want to be more good n kind. being a human isn't a ticket for us to be arrogance to other creature of Allah SWT. sometime, i feel that im arrogant to others by neglecting them because i feel uneasy to be friend to stranger. it isn't about stranger at the first place but the feeling of uneasy comes because they aren't met the standard level that i search for to be a good friend. im not telling that im that good, but if the person who want to be by your side is neglecting her/his obligation to The Creator by not performing 5 times of daily prayer, what do u expect from them? for me, if the person neglects his obligation toward Him, so he/she might betray u then. this is my theory, and it might be varied from your point of view,, but for me there is a . to them from entering my life.it sounds that im a bit choosy but for me it's kind of prevention from making yourself being stabbed without prior notice.yes, i know i kind of strict toward my word in this post, but as long as i know this isn't mentioned to any specific person so it's alright then.Wassalam